We’ve created this myth, that Christians are boring and aren’t allowed to have sex. God created the gift of sex for married couples to enjoy, for his glorification. Sex is the thing that has become the quick-talk about what works and what doesn’t.
If I should confess, I’ve been married for two years and I enjoy sex with my husband. I don’t withhold or feel guilty about pleasing my partner, just because the community puts that portrait for being a Christian out for the world to see as being boring and perfect.
If you’re married, learn all about your partner’s needs. Don’t be ashamed to enjoy what pleases you. You’re suppoed to enjoy sex! It was made for you.